Simple answers to m4m massage questions

Everything you want to know about m4m massage services from Men's Bodywork by Trevor James
Frequently asked m4m massage questions
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  • You matter to me!

    This is YOUR session. If you want anything changed: pressure, areas worked, position or if you are too hot or too cold ... please let me know! My feelings won’t be hurt by you asking for something that will make you more comfortable. I want this to be the best experience for you to relax and enjoy. Also, what you requested in one session may be different in another. If you had a full body massage last time, but this time you only want your back/neck/shoulders/arms worked, it's perfectly fine to let me know.

  • Should I undress completely?

    You should undress to the level you are comfortable. For a full body massage, most get completely undressed. However, if you will be more comfortable during the session if you leave your underwear on, that's fine. I will work around the clothes you left on as best as I can. If removing all your clothes makes you too nervous and unable to relax, then you are not getting the optimal benefit from the session. I will give you privacy to undress and get comfortable on the table.

  • What if I am self-conscious about certain parts of my body?

    If you’re uncomfortable with getting a specific area treated don’t be embarrassed to mention it to me. I can avoid those areas. I will typically ask you before I begin your massage.

  • Can I talk during my m4m massage session?

    Sure, if you'd like to talk go right ahead. The important thing to remember is that this treatment is all about you relaxing and enjoying the experience. In many instances, people may feel more relaxed starting off talking, and as the massage progresses, enter quiet states of relaxation. The important issue here is that there are times when you need to speak up. If I am doing anything that is making you uncomfortable, please let me know immediately. Also, let me know if you get too warm or too cold, if the room is too bright, or if the pressure needs to be changed (lighter or deeper). If something is not working for you it’s perfectly ok to let me know!

  • What do I do during an m4m massage treatment?

    Make yourself comfortable. If I need you to adjust your position, I will either move you or ask you to move what is needed. Otherwise, change your position anytime to make yourself more comfortable. Many people close their eyes and relax completely during a session; others prefer to talk. It's up to you. It is your massage, and whatever feels natural to you is the best way to relax. Do not hesitate to ask questions at any time.

  • What if I get an erection during my m4m massage?

    Sometimes it happens. Yet, most men avoid massage for fear this will happen to them. Or, they get a massage but are unable to relax because of this fear. But there is no reason to be embarrassed. It is entirely normal get an erection even during a non-sexual, therapeutic, full body massage. Touch administered to any part of the body can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which can result in a partial or complete erection. Just relax and enjoy the massage.

  • Why do you only work on men?

    I fill the niche for men, regardless of their sexual orientation, who prefer the touch of other men for bodywork.

  • What’s the difference between erotic and sensual massage? Do you practice ‘erotic massage’?

    Massage in itself is inherently sensual. The main difference between ‘erotic’ and ‘sensual’ massage is intent. Sensual massage is still therapeutic massage, there are just fewer boundaries on how I touch you. On the other hand, ‘Erotic massage’ is in essence ‘sex with a skin polish’ - which is not what I do.

    I focus on the healing powers of touch. I provide more a sensual session with erotic elements. But those elements vary depending on how well the client and I interact, communicate, and what boundaries are agreed on before the session.

    To be clear, I’m not an escort. When requesting a session, I prefer you not discuss your sexual fantasies with me through text. But we can discuss boundaries and expectations in person.

  • Do you offer sex as part of the massage?

    I do not offer any kind of sex with clients.

  • What forms of payment do you accept?

    I accept cash, Venmo, PayPal and all major credit cards (with a $5 surcharge).

  • When are you available?

    My online booking tool shows the latest available slots. You can also text or call 213.588.4242 for special requests.

  • Where are you located?

    I am located in Hollywood Hills, east of the 101 freeway in Los Angeles. I also visit Palm Springs occasionally and on request.

  • What is so special about Men's Bodywork by Trevor James?

    I'm glad you asked! As a certified touch therapist, I believe in the healing power of touch and I focus on your body's reaction to my touch. My promise to my clients is to be intentional and mindful during our session to give them my full attention.

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